Being a member of online dating site where millions of online persons are members may be traumatizing. Trauma may be increased if such a site enables members to have online chat and at the same time allow chatters to access the profile. This trauma may be caused by lack of interest of those who would probably like to connect, yet lose interest because of a poor written online dating profile.
Your Online Dating Profile Can Be Interesting, This Is How
Online identification is on the written profile and an uploaded photo. A poor profile, unfortunately, means a poor personality. At least that’s how people perceive it. A short profile indicates a held back person who does not always want to talk. On the other hand a long profile is perceived to be owned by someone who talks endlessly without time for others to share what they are composed of. Therefore, having the right profile with the right photo will earn you a lot of points with those interested in talking to you.
A profile does not have to contain the whole truth about you if you are only interested in online chatting and have no interest in meeting in person. But be aware, though some people have managed to put a lot of lies online and even post fake photos and at the same time win hundreds of hearts, it doesn’t mean that is the right thing to do, especially if you are looking for an honest loving friend.
Your online profile should be able to convey your thoughts and at the same time win hearts. And with that in mind as a goal, here are some tips for what you must never do:
1. Have short boring profiles: These profiles include no words or very short descriptions. People whose profiles say that they are intelligent, honest and loving, without much information on their preferences do not stand a chance of winning an online date especially if such a profile is from a man.
2. Choice of words: When writing a profile, your wording should suggest that you are a talkative, charming individual with variety in life, ready to adventure and incorporate new people in their lives. (Which is exactly what you should be if you want to meet new people).
3. Upload a photo: People with photos included in their online dating profile are 60 times more likely to get someone talk to them. It won’t matter how many wonderful words you’ve used, a lot of people will not pay attention to your profile if you don’t have a photo. Also, if the site has the option for searching for profiles with certain characteristics be sure that most people will firstly exclude profiles with no photos.
4. An attractive picture: But, just having a picture is not enough. A dull photo in which the background is not clear or pleasing, a photo in which your facial expression suggests that you are not friendly or not willing to talk, a photo that no one will be interested in looking at twice, better remove those from your profile. As much as a photo is important for your profile, a bad one may do you more harm than good. Put in some effort, and you’ll see the results in no time.
After you have read this article, go and update your profile and be sure that you will receive thousands of online requests for friendships.